Dedicate time to work:
it’s the price of success.
Dedicate time to think:
It’s the fountain of power.
Dedicate time to enjoy:
it’s the secret of youth.
Dedicate time to love and be loved:
it’s the source of joy and satisfaction.
Dedicate time to laugh:
it mitigates the stress
Marriage can be defined as the union of a man and woman as husband and wife, which becomes the foundation for a home and family. To strengthen marriage, society has bind every marriage with it two R’s namely: Rights & Responsibilities.
Rights are legal or moral entitlements to do, or refrain from doing/obtaining something. When the life partner(s) start focusing on the rights given to them, which they could use at the time of quarrel, to show their superiority, to secure their positions/ future etc. marital problem starts to pop up.
Indian tradition, advocate responsibilities over rights for marriage. And this, i believe was the most important factor for life long/ full term marriages over here. Other parts of the world, and now even in India, bind people with rights, mainly for the woman so as to secure her position in the marriage.
The major difference between rights and responsibilities is that rights tend to focus towards what the other has to do and what (s)he can expect from the other person… while responsibilities are directed towards self. i.e., To become more responsible on has to at maximum change at his end, and accept more responsibilities himself.
Once responsibilities are known/taken by an indivisual then there remains no scope for the so called the blame game. And in case of a problem, one takes the responsibility, and focus towards the solution; rather than seeking the appropriate rights and starting of with the blame game.
In fact, if you are not happy with any part of your life, say, “I am responsible” and get busy changing it.
In sum, one must focus most towards taking/accepting responsibilities in a relationship, and lesser if at all on the rights granted to lead a happy, rich, life long, and fulfilling marriage life.
koi diwana kehta hai, koi pagal samjta hai.
magar dharti ki baicheni, ko bas badal samjta hai.
tu mujhase dur kaisi hai main tuzse dur kaisa hu.
yeh mera dil samjta hai na tera dil samjta hai.
mahobat ek aisa sog ki pawan si kahani hai.
kabhi kabira diwana tha kabhi meera diwani hai.
yaha sab log kehte hai ki mere aankho me aansu hai.
jo tu samjhe to moti hai jo na samjhe to pani hai.
Bahut tula bahot bikhara thapede seh nahi paaya.
hawaaon ke isharo par, magar main beh nahi paya.
adhoora ansuna hi reh gaya yeh pyar ka kissa.
adhoora ansusna hi reh gaya yeh pyaar ka kissa.
kabhi tu sun nahi paaryi kabhi main keh nahi paya.
bhramar koi kumdani par machal baitha to hungama.
humare dil me koi khwab pal baitha to hungama.
abhi tak log sunte the kissa mahobat ka.
main kisse ko hakikat me badal baitha to hungama.
samundar peer ka andar hai lekin ro nahi sakta.
yeh aansu pyar ka moti, ise main kho nahi sakta.
meri chahat ko tu apna bana lena magar sunle.
meri chahat ko tu dulhan bana lena magar sunle.
jo mera ho nahi paaya woh tera ho nahi sakta.
swaym se dur ho tum bhi, swaym se dur hai hum bhi.
bade mashhoor ho tum bhi, bade mashhoor hai hum bhi.
bade magroor ho tum bhi, bade magroor ho tum bhi.
aatah bade majboor ho tum bhi.
bade majboor hai hum bhi.
~Kavi Kumar Biswas
I believe that Love and Sex are totally different entities; though one may lead to the other.
Love is something that lasts forever. Its a feeling; feeling related to the heart. Its a dedicated, and a pleasant experience. There will surely be instances in Love relationships when you will be in pain. But still you will hang on, because you are in love.
Sex is an action. Its a pleasure, and is for fun. Its linked with what you think, and so is basically related to the mind. I do believe the most sexiest organ in the human body is MIND. And a human body is programmed to have SEX. The purpose of a Man & Woman, and the whole human generation depends on this ecstatic, pleasure activity between two people.
When one is denied of sex, he/she may or may not feel that bad. But, the person can find alternate means to feel better. Love is far more powerful, and precious than SEX. Love is a feeing that is shared between two people who care deeply for each other. And when you are denied of love, you loose even your sleep.
I believe that Love may lead to sex, but not the other way round.
What is Love???
A group of 4 to 8 year-olds was asked, “What does
love mean?” The answers they gave were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.
“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.”
Rebecca – age 8
“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth.”
Billy – age 4
“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.”
Chrissy – age 6
“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”
Terri – age 4
“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and he takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”
Danny – age 7
“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday”
Tina – age 7
“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.”
Tommy – age 6
“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore. That’s love.”
Cindy – age 8
“My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.”
Clare – Age 5
“Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken.”
Elaine – age 5
“Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.”
Mary Ann – age 4
“I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.”
Lauren – age 4
………. Love………… is not only made for lovers…….
Its also for friends who love each other sometimes better than lovers.
Smile and spread some love at all times…
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